For a long time my wife was handling the money and things weren't perfect. For a while I started to take money control. Once my symptoms started showing my faith in myself fell. In the last year I've let the main checking account go down the drain. I've got a private account that I've wanted to put my wife on, She refused to sign on. Seeing my habits get worse and worse I'm beginning to believe that things were better off with her heading it up.