Hi Tatyana,

I don't think that it is the same as what happened to me and him... but I don't know. I am going to figure out if there are still feelings that I should hold on too or just walk away.
I have not promised him a relationship or even friendship ahould things fail with Lisa.. I have made it clear that I want no part in them ending the relationship.
I am staying as safe as I can for the time being.
I want to ask him what the 'situation' is (as he puts it) and get a straight answer - I have always been able to tell if he was lying to me (okay so before we broke up I saw the signs and didn't want to see them.. but in my gut I knew they were there when I talked with him)
I need answers and if he can't provide me with them then if may just be time to tell him to f*@k off but I wont know until I see him face to face I think.

If now is the time to get all the answers that have plagued my for the past months then I see it as a positive

Thank you so much for your kind words xx

How are you doing?