Why is it so important to everyone else that I be in a relationship when I have no desire to be in one? I am perfectly fine with being single and my family and friends know this well, but yet they continue to ask me when I will "find a girl and get married." My parents frequently ask me about children (despite the fact I don't want any). I am sure I some degree of schizoid pd, and T feels I have a mild social phobia. I actually do enjoy being by myself, but no one seems to grasp this no matter how many times I tell them.