in my city there is not a whole lot for the older generation to do, I had already considered the idea of an older partner but the only women that I ever see anywhere I either married or in their teens. I do not have many interests, I do go to school but it's a rather small university and while there are some females there they are all generally married or again in their teens. I think what happens most often in these circumstances is people generally meet others through friends. Or at least that is how it used to be. But at the moment I have no one that I associate with outside of my classes. So I could hang around best buy and try to pick up chicks who are interested in computers, as that is my primary interest. I do not think that they would like me hanging around their store in such a fashion lol.
My other plan for the summer is to use my sister who is a couple years older as she has friends, so maybe I can "steal" some of her friends and use it as a means to integrate myself back into some type of social circle. A job would be a good place to make friends, but I am in no real rush to give up my carefree lifestyle. I figure I'm in so much debt already that while I could work towards paying it off now there is little hope of me ever really being debt free. So while I am still able to borrow money I intend to enjoy what I consider to be my retirement ahead of time. Then I'll probably work until I die. at least this way I am sure to get one