Thanks guys. I think he already does know it but just hasnt realized what he is saying when he calls. From listening to him he is pretty much saying he doesnt think it will go anywhere but maybe he just doesnt want to be alone right now?

Anyone else I would just stay out and not even bother but we have a relationship where we just flat out tell each other that. If I call him about a problem with my current boyfriend he will flat out say "you are just being a jerk and need to chill out" or "you need to break it off" lol. Out of everyone in my family I would say that I am closest with him so he has called me asking what I think about the situation. Im not just trying to butt in, this was from him asking me what to do. And I just dont know how to give my opinion without being insulting or anything. He has even said "yeah we have a good time together but you can have a good time with just about anybody. I need more than just a good time" so he is borderline breaking it off already and I think he is calling me because he knows I will say to end it and thats what he wants to hear - maybe to justify it to himself?