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Old Apr 29, 2010, 11:28 AM
Gleak Gleak is offline
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Originally Posted by TheByzantine View Post
The question for me is what does your fiancee get from talking with this guy? She knows you are not comfortable with this ongoing chat. What is she getting from this chat that she cannot let go of that she cannot get from you?
I'm not too sure, exactly. We've had a discussion regarding just that and all I could make out is that she was looking for friends.

I've explained that i've had friends of the opposite sex before and sex wasn't a topic of discussion between us.

Sameera - She and I have had pretty much all the talks on the topic that we likely will have. It's not exactly a dead issue in my mind, but now if i bring it up, I'm "bringing up old news" and I get asked as to why I do that.

One other thing she said kind of made me a little nervous. Just last night we were talking and she, in an assumed joking manner, said that one person couldn't possibly fulfill all the needs of another. Jokingly, I asked "So, I can go find another woman?" She laughed and basically told me that I should.

I explained to her right after that again, that she's the only one for me.

There was more to the conversation than that - but that's the extent of it.