The OP's situation is the reason I don't have a cell phone. I was getting calls from a woman that had some issues with her husband and my DW thought I was having an affair. I felt sorry for the woman but admittedly it was too much. It didn't look good. Now, shoe on the other foot.....I wouldn't care if she was getting calls from a guy. Weird right? No, it's just that I don't have a jealous bone in my body. Never did and she knows that.