i dont think its that bad... he always buys me flowers and stands up for me when his little sister or brother talk down to me... its like he can do it but they sure as hell cant... in fact he bans them from our house for months if they disrespect me... i dont know... maybe its all in my head? I would never call anyone on him though... I may leave him at some point (i hope it doesnt get that bad) but I wouldnt report him or anything... but i really dont want to because i advocate for his family and keep him from being as hateful to them.. hes just an @ss on the outside and a teddy bear on the inside... spent all of his adult life in prison so what can you expect... been out almost a year now and has come a long way... im making a lot of excuses huh?