If I had to guess I would say that the couselor is/was just busy. We have one counselor that must rotate to 5 elementary schools where I work. She doesn't have a lot of extra time. She addresses issues when she knows about them, but even then she is spread pretty thin. So try not to think it was your fault s/he didn't talk to you more. I encourage you to try again. If you are uncomfortable going to a counselor, tell a teacher you trust. Teachers often know how to get you into special programs or to get you help. Keep coming here and let us know what happens.