Well then it sounds like you will be fine.

She may also be learning, having a lack of experience in long term relationships mixed with the fact that both of you are going into a new area. Marriage is great but it can be a little unnerving at first, especially if you have to adjust to living with each other. That does not seem like the case here but still.

Also as you correctly pointed out, she just might really have different levels of comfort about such things and different views on areas of relationships. I got used to that with my wife, she was born on another continent much less a different culture. Things will work out. She will figure out that these things bother you and probably do them less, just as you will end up doing when you find things that bother her. It all comes with time and experience (or should, some people make me wonder about that).

Anywho, I wouldn't worry too much, your relationship has already lasted longer than quite a few marriages. You guys will be fine.