i went back and read the rest of your post after the initial shock of the subject matter. your boyfriend is definitely taking advantage of you. please get away from this guy. you do not deserve to be treated this way. you may have to take a job doing something where you make a lot less money but no amount of money is worth what he has asked you to do. i agree that you should go ahead and do a site on your own without him if it's something you really want to do and feel good about. you aren't in any danger from him if you do it on your own are you?