Yay typo! 
You are not forgiving for his sake but yours. It is not he who is kept up awake by this at night, you are. It is not he who was traumatized, you were. IT was not him who cried himself to sleep, not him who developed PTSD, not him who had flashbacks, not him who struggled in school....no typo, it was you.
Forgive for your own sake and it seems like you are. *hug*
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“In depression . . . faith in deliverance, in ultimate restoration, is absent. The pain is unrelenting, and what makes the condition intolerable is the...feeling felt as truth...that no remedy will come -- not in a day, an hour, a month, or a minute. . . . It is hopelessness even more than pain that crushes the soul.”-William Styron
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