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Old Apr 30, 2010, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted by dfh932 View Post
(((blameme)))) maybe try a little tenderness? with yourself? feeling so angry/anguished/upset sometimes keeps me in the cycle of destruction. Sometimes i just have to accept it for what it is and 'worry about that later' when i'm not in the throes of being horribly upset. sending you positive energy and kindness....
I do show tenderness to my children, my friends, and others I work with, but tenderness for myself? how?why? I don't know if I know how to do that. I am the nurturer not the nurtured. That's how it's always been.