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Some women, often those who have been abused or treated poorly in the past, tend to gravitate towards BDSM/rough sex/ rough play/humiliation to fufill their need to punish themselves because of the abuse. Thats something you need to make sure ISINT true of why you went there and chose to do it. If it is, you may want to absolutely stay away from that, because it does re traumatize you, sometimes you dont realize it until much later on.
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rainbow i was wondering about this. I read somewhere that if a person repeats bad things or whatever, they are doing it to 'fix' it in their heads. Like, it's on their own terms and they can control the situation. Is that healthy, or is that still an unhealthy thing?