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Old May 01, 2010, 12:09 AM
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I know we are supposed to be able to tell T anything. I definitely feel comfortable with T and feel good about all the crap I've unloaded on him even though it's been hard. He's been great. There's just this one thing....
Awhile ago I told T about an ongoing substance abuse problem I've struggled with and ever since then, whenever I'm having a tough time with something, he always brings it around to that issue and makes it about that one thing. Ughh. Without going into all the gory details, that is exactly what I did not want. I know that some of my problems are related to that one thing, but not every single thing.

I wouldn't go so far as to say that I regret telling him about the issue because he definitely needs to know and he's the only one I can talk to about it. Sometimes I do imagine the benefits of having kept my big mouth shut, though, and that got me wondering...is there anything you wish you hadn't told your T?
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