Fantastic Typo!!! Yes, we continue the abuse of our own selves so long as we hold onto the blame of all of it and name it our own---the only way out is to go through...(someone else said)--then to forgive yourself, stop the shame, the guilt,
the self hate--then we can love ourselves again...no, we don't have to forgive them--we are the ones who need our own forgiveness to heal -Thanks (((Typo)))