(((The Bakery)))-I always had that problem-can identify completely.

"If you see a therapist= you are crazy"--my family has thrown that one at me for 40 years--but seeing a therapist was my only way to help myself. I slowly learned to delete the negative attitudes my birth family had, and then my own family had to my being in therapy...they still have the problem..."she's crazy", even my son goes on about it--it is hurtful--but i know in my heart it was the only way for me to go.

They can all be in denial, in hate, in drama, but I am not! so there--hugs-"crazy" theo