omg this is an important thread. I am usually super on-guard in T and worried about telling T all kinds of stuff. It seems like there is a fine line between knowing what to tell T and what you won't like to tell T.

I have been feeling closer to T lately and thinking about letting her know that there is like...like you know that classic image of the iceberg in the ocean, and if you're in a ship on the surface you can only see the tip? but underneath, it's like this massive thing..we'll we've reached the base of the exposed part of the iceberg and now I'm thinking about telling more.

But i'm just not sure what i'm comfortable with!? So many secrets, private information, how to know which ones i will regret bringing up...hmmm...that is just confusing.