I agree. I think what we regret telling T has EVERYTHING to do with T's reaction. There isn't any information I regret sharing with T-- I don't care that she knows. However, T has sometimes put her own interpretations or judgments onto what I've shared, and that has bothered me. I feel like she has this negative impression that isn't valid and I don't know how to get her to change her mind. I know T is entitled to think whatever she wants (eventhough she's a T she's still human and still has opinions, even if she tries to not show them). Still, her interpretation of the situation simply isn't correct and that in itself drives me crazy. The fact that she wants me to come around to seeing it her way drives me even crazier. She isn't so blunt about it, but it's evident by her reactions. There we go again with those T "reactions" that send us spinning...