Not only have I offered couples and family I begged to go myself. We only have one vehicle and I have to get permission to use it or else he gets weird. He has something else wrong and he says it makes him less of a man. He won't go to the t so I am not 100% sure its bipolar. His doc referred him cause he believes that's the issue. But he refuses to go cause "he isn't crazy". He is mentally abusive and does have violent episodes. I'm beginning to wonder if he's not just abusive cause he hides his feelings when he's outside the house and from what I read it should affect him everywhere right?