Yes, it always took me up to six months to get use to a job and my other co-workers, etc.

I identified with some of what you had to say with talking too much when other people were around, annoying them. That's just a nervous habit, because you're new and not sure how you fit and if you'll be able to do the job okay.

I remember my friends at my last job, where I was for 8 years, telling me that at first they thought I didn't like one woman (the boss's daughter, no less :-) and were surprised when I became one of her best supporters/helpers. Things can change for the better, it all takes time though.

I hope you can hang in there birdcrazy.