I am sorry Kimmy. I had a similar experience as well. My answering machine had a message from my family. it said this is the home of..... One day one of the kids made a new message and erased the one that had my deceased daughter's name on the message. It was pretty sad. He is still with you, I believe it. Just for laughs, the other thing was that my daughter was disabled and incontinent. We used to throw her briefs down to the cellar to a big can at the bottom. One got under the stairs and it was there in the basement. I left it there when I swept and cleaned and one day hubby found it and was so disgusted and angry with me for leaving it there. I was upset that he threw it away. Snot that he was. Feel better please kd. Love you.