(((grizmom))) I am always asking my t if what I am feeling or not feeling is "normal". I, too, can feel out of sync when I am uncomfortable with different groups of people (mostly adults). I am 52 yrs old and find that I communicate best with children and adults with mental issues. I don't think I am making comparisons with others; I am just looking for acceptance. I do suffer from pstd and incest abuse but on good days I am making progress. I have found the older I get, the more research I do, and the more I talk to my very decent t, the clearer my path is. It will happen, grizmom, for you. Keep the faith.