Nuck, I think that writing down what happened and what you felt and feel is the most important thing in a trauma (especially one caused by such kind of people who make you wonder why or how it was possible...) Because then you can let go by telling yourself, hey, I wrote about that! It's over! Like you are having another life without that past. I am still blocked and not able to write about what happened... in a coherent, comprehensible way. But I know that when I will be able I would simply look at the person who suffered like to a character from that "red" book. On the other hand if I still feel pain or stumble across answers to common question regarding things connected with what happened... I will send the person to read the book so that I don't have to identify myself with the person who suffered. And therefore I could get healed!

For me it's a big success that I am able to write here on the site... a little.