Thanks everybody for replies....

Sameera, you are absolutely right....maturity doesn't really come with age....sometimes, we are just hoping to have age as an indicator.....My ex husband was three years younger than me and he was like a 60 years old guy....He didn't want to do anything....all he wanted was staying at home and go to work....so scary to get to that kinds of relationships.....

What Tatyana is saying about those young guys on the net is true....some of them for sure are so mature....actually, it's so easy to find out from their profiles what they say about themselves or which pictures they put out there....Tired of looking at naked muscular guys with so many girls around in the picture....what's up with that? don't they get it, they are in the online dating....I don't want to see your ex-girlfriend on the site....and if she's your mother or sister or whoever, still I don't need to see her picture with you in the first place....that's kind of another turn off for me....

gosh...I'm so picky....and I'm lazy too....I'm lazy to email them....I have couple of guys that they winked me and I think they are decent....well...I don't know till I start talking to them....I'll email them next week....I've been so depressed last night and not having any energy to put on the online dating....argggg.....

ya...Tatyana, lets go and find those cute guys....hehehe....I think internet dating is okay as long as we don't go after the bad ones....lets try our luck and not get disappointed....well....I signed up for 6 months....wow....I'm so desperate....

I'm so tired now....It's better I go and sleep....

take care
M.