I have a question that is directed more toward the ladies.

I am a psychology student and one of my areas of interest (and probable area of work) is in relationship/couples counseling, treatment of depression, a whole list of other issues, cases of abuse and so on in women. Essentially everything from difficult relationships, getting better after an abusive relationship, treatment of assault/rape victims and other such issues.

I have never really been able to ask this question of a group that actually knows from experience so I figured that I will sate my curiosity and just ask. Profs always tell you things will be fine and to just remain professional, and the other students that I talk to are women but have not had any real experience as a patient. They have played the role to learn what it is like but have not actually had the disorders that will have a profound effect on these things. (Abuse cases are an example of this, having this happen will have a huge effect on you. My fellow students have not experienced this so have no real idea what it is like having to deal with it and talk about it.)

I am a guy, my question is simple.

As a woman does it bother you to have a male therapist? Do you find yourself being more self conscious of what you say or even less willing do talk about certain subjects, even if they are something that is bothering you or may help in your treatment?

I am curious about these sorts of things because of my hopeful area of study and work. I would like to get some opinions from real people who have been there and know what it is like. I want to use this information to hopefully make myself a better practitioner when that day comes.

Please, if you will, give me your thoughts and opinions from a womans perspective of having a male therapist. What your experiences have been, advice for me in being a better therapist to women, how to create a better environment and so on. In short, whatever you think will be helpful I would like to know.

Thank you for your time.