In my experience, I can frustrate both genders with about equal regularity. I early on was labeled a difficult client and now have been told I have treatment resistant depression. Women therapists seem to want to try for a longer time to help. Two of the male therapists just told me they could not help me and got up and left. I has had very intense encounters since I sometimes asked if they could help me or not. I did not expect instant gratification but did feel I had the right to expect at least some progress.

Good luck.