my dear, it is vitally important that you stand back and get perspective. remember you react they way you do because that is your nature to react that way, when we come from an emotional place, reason goes out the window. of course things hurt us, people hurt us, but ultimately we are responsible for the way we choose to view or interprate the actions, and sometimes it just takes looking at the problem just a little differently. yes your fathers new gf may be a b%^Io, but you must be responsible for your own actions, as others have mentioned, your father is going through transition just like you and is trying to create something new in his life, i would find it hard to fathom that your dad does not love you and cherish you, maybe, just maybe perception is like looking through a koliadascope you just have to turn it ever so slightly to get a completely new picture. i do wish you all the best, i do so hope that i am not being too presumptuous in offering my opinion, but i am compelled to do so in the hope that it may help you. thank you