I am with you all the way on the clubbing thing. I would not like that one bit. Are you a dancer for a living? what sort of dance?
I am with you the guy with couple of kids, just separated - done that too. in fact my ex (7 years together) was separated when we met. He got a final divorce after a year or so of us being together and you are right it's so complicated, and a big drama and they need to finalize their marriage first before getting into dating - I think they have separation problems and some denial....and I agree they should go with a woman who has kids then they have mutual understandings and expectations.
Thanks for the good luck! The same to you. By the way - do you libe in LA? I have one friend who is single who lives there. He is lovely, I am not sure he is dating or not
If you do come to London - let me know. Would love to meet you too!

Where does your sister live?
Pleasure about sharing my experiences... And thanks for your sharing too! It helps to know one is not alone
Hugs xxx