Belle, this is going to sound harsh -

Mark is an idiot. A jerk of a guy. A lier. He proposed to her and now says he doesnt know why??? Did you read my posts about my ex who proposed to me? went on his knee? gave me a ring by the xmas tree, said he always knew i would be his wife? and then told me few months later '**** the proposal'? how can you accept Mark doing the same thing to another woman? Lisa is a person. So are you. And he is an imature idiot at best and a manipulative jerk at worst.

You are in his head properly??? You must be kidding right? Mark has only himself in his head.

Girl - if I were you - I would take time off. Go and do a two week retreat and do a lot of yoga, self esteem motivational classes and group therapy. Get your self esteem up.

By meeting with him you help him cheat on Lisa. And lower your self esteem.

I am glad you told him he has until May. But do you really want him??

And do you really think he is not playing a game? who are you kidding??

You said that if he blows sunday then thats it. Well - you moved your own goal post again... Please put proper boundaries up. If you want to have all that you want to have you must be stronger and not bend to his rules and needs. Your needs are important and your life matter!! Please Belle be honest with yourself. xxx