Oh and I haven't taken antidepressants yet, I'm not sure if it is something I want to do... does it work for you? and thanks for the encouragement! seriously, the example about the cancer--chemotherapy really helped and it is true, sometimes we are so cruel and say so many mean things about ourselves that we would never think to say to someone else...but, good luck to you and thanks again for the comment!
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A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.
Maya Angelou.
so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456
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"You're not here merely to make a living. You are here to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, and with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. You impoverish yourself if you forget this errand." (Woodrow Wilson)