Same.

- Lies because she "didn't want to lose you". So obviously the next time something happens, she will LIE again out of fear for losing you.

- Plays the guilt card. Families involved, kids involved

- Clearly doesn't trust you or your relationship enough that she can't tell you "what she's been through" and again doesn't have enough faith to be honest out of fear of "losing you" and not realizing by lying she's "losing you".

-She had a fresh start with this money and put more effort into deceiving me for the past seven months to keep me around than she did into getting her mess cleaned up. - Huge red flag.

Too much.. for me. Maybe you want to stick around because you're one of those guys that feel like they can or have to be the saviour or rescuer?