Well, I believe that it all depends on if you connect with that therapist. I have actually had both (male & female) and really have had a good connection and bad connection with both. So, in my opinion, it all has to do with the way you and the therapist connect, not the gender.

I am new to this forum and I am just happy that I found somewhere that I can actually talk to people that have some of the same issues that I have and hope to get some honest opinions about some of the things that I do to people, including myself.

Thank you