Have you thought about pressing charges against her? You have every right to do that and the spanking thing to me, considering your age and that she is not related to you, sounds dangerously close to sexual assualt. no one has the right to touch you and even with an age appropriate situation you would never pour hot sauce into a childs mouth. Thats abuse no matter how old the child is. Im glad you got a way from her and that your dad kicked her out, you might want to talk to your parents about speaking with the parents of other children she is taking care of. Because one of two things is going to happen if not both, 1 she is going to end up seriously injuring or killing a child and 2 a parent will figure out what she is doing and she will end up seriously injured or dead. Just speaking from a mothers point of view and I dont condone violence at all, but if you were my child this chic would be in some serious physical pain right about now!!