((((((((((Billi)))))))))) I am sorry your T has done this to you. There should have been some discussion about ending therapy. It's not very good for the paitent to just be left out of coming back to that T. It can do a great deal of damage to some people.

One person asked why you would only want BPD'ers to answer this. I can understand this since a lot of people that don't have BPD don't understand what we go through. However, some of those people still may have some good words of wisdom. That is just my thought on it. You have a right to say what you want though and what you believe to be good for you. I can appreciate that.

It is very hard for us and other people around us to get comfortable with us. I too have experienced this. I agree that maybe your work is just done with this T. personally I wouldn't want to go back if I felt my T did something like this to me, blantly just stopped.

Please take care of yourself Billi. Feel free to PM anytime about anything. Take Care.