Marjan......you're sweet, I can tell.
I want you to be careful and discerning with the men you meet. I do not want to discourage you, but, speaking from experience, a man (or woman) can pretend to be anything and everything on the Internet. I could literally write a book about it.
My mistake was in NOT being discerning, not listening to my inner voice when red flags presented themselves (and there were many!).
Just be careful, sweetie!
Patty