Thanks Patty.....I think I should be fine.....I'm very good at understanding people....and that's I own to my single life living in different countries for a long time....and I consider myself smart enough to understand the red flags.....Honesty, I found it easier to learn from them through their profiles....and then after couple of emails you can find out who they really are....and thanks to internet....I always research the guy and get some idea who he is....while back I was chatting with the guy on another online dating and I thought he's so good to be true....there is somthing going wrong with him....plus, he wasn't giving me quick right answers, which made me suspices about him....hmmm....I was right....I googled him, and I found a website saying that apparantly he's an spam....he is in the online datings with the same stories with cute pictures, but different pictures.....however, I found the same pic on that site and a story of so many women....I reported him to the online dating site and then after a while I found out they deleted him from the site....and of course I didn't answer any of his emails....yes....there are freaky people out there for sure!
thanks again for your concern
Marjan