(((robin620))) - I'm very sorry you lost your baby - I can't adequately express the right words to equal your loss. It's also unfortunate your job/move didn't happen as planned.

You're so right, this is a huge loss and you're entitled to feel what you need to feel. It's hard for men to understand and truly, only a woman who's suffered the same loss, would really know what you feel like.

I have 2 girls 8 & 11 but they were both born 7 weeks early. The youngest was an emergency case - I was bleeding and had to go by ambulance. I was extremely worried about losing her and could have lost both, if it was any earlier. I had my youngest when I was 42, so when you're up to it, think about trying again.

You're justified is feeling this pain and you can't just cheer up or get over it, until you're ready. I agree your husband might not know how to comfort you, not because he doesn't love you, but because he doesn't know how. He might be feeling pain too, but is afraid of his own emotions and it probably does hurt him to see you cry. Gentle hugs to you Robin