(((((marjan)))))
i'm sorry you are having such a hard time with this.
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Originally Posted by Perna
I think some of it is not trying so hard, as we can't really control such things; don't know who we will meet tomorrow much less to marry?
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i think what perna said here is really true. obviously we can't sit around all day doing nothing and expect to meet someone but if we try too hard it tends not to happen either. i think you may be trying too hard.
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I would "give up" kind of like AkAngel says, just decide it may or may not happen and look to your own life as if it hasn't happened yet :-) Where do you want to live, what do you want to do/be/experience if you don't get married?
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don't put off doing what you want to do until you have a husband. enjoy your life now. my situation is similar to akangel's in that i met the person and knew they were the one and it will definitely happen but things went a bit haywire and now i've had to wait for the situation to sort out. it hasn't been easy but since i know in my heart that it is going to happen i am waiting as patiently as i can.