A friend did come over today and was able to take me out for some groceries and take me to the unveiling ceremony for my aunt which was today... I had relatives from out-of-town in for it and thought I should show up since I missed the funeral.

The grave is right next to my mom for which we never did have a funeral or an unveiling, largely because of my dad... (who luckily wasn't there today)

No one has seen me in a long time (my uncle didn't recognize me, when I walked up he thought I was the rabbi ) and I talked to them a little but couldn't really discuss what has been going on... not really an appropriate time.

I did splurge on some premade turkey chili con carne with beans in the gormet section of the grocery store my friends took me too, I figured it would last me a few days... had some before and it was yummy.