I dont know... I dont know him well enough to mention about the way he talks...

At least he is gone in 3 days.

I am setting up processes for the reporting of information to the government for one of the services here for children. its a 2 months contract that will probably be extended but i wont want to extend.

Good you did not continue with the trainer! I think that if you can choose - then dont be around people like that. My ex's step mum used to mention to me all the time that i m not from this country (cause i was not born here) and she used to talk in such a horrible way about emirants. I cannot stand ppl like that. In 3 of his abusive fits he referred to that as well. Gosh I hate him for it. He said 'in this country this is what we do'.... hooooo Marjan - how did I stay with him.... yuk yuk yuk

Anyway - I had some new revelations about myself today and how I ended up with a man like him. Its good to have those as it helps me move on.

I hope you find some inner peace and calmity. Is there anything I can do??

T. xxx