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Old May 05, 2010, 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted by BlackCanary View Post
I interpret "I am more effective when I sit here" to mean

"I am really uncomfortable sitting that close. I am afraid you might touch me."

So, I feel like he is lying to me, also very painful.
Sounds like old stuff being triggered ^ ?

Yeah, if he is so far away that you can't see him that's a problem. I can understand why you are upset because it wasn't discussed.

So you want to run instead of discuss this with him? Do you understand why you have the urge to run?
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Thanks for this!
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