I was twenty-two when I was diagnosed, I got out of the hospital and moved in with a four-month-old baby. I took responsibility for my treatment, even when it was hard, because I wanted to be able to be around the baby and not jeopardize her safety or happiness in any way.

Your husband is an adult, he doesn't need you the way your children need you.

I agree that being bipolar is not an excuse for being abusive. You shouldn't blame yourself, you are not responsible for his problems. You are responsible for you and for your kids.