I hesitate to reply here. I really don't know what has been going on and I really don't need to. What I can say is that it is okay to share our feelings openly, especially when we use I statements to do so. It is important to own our feelings and share them openly and try to really listen to what others are saying. I don't feel it is ever appropriate to make snide jabs at eachother that leave me scratching my head saying "huh?" It's about support. That is what we need to remember.