BlackCanary- First...LOL on what your H said! And...my first reaction is that your T is learning what boundaries wuit him best. I suppose it would depend on how much you want to stay with a T who is a tiny bit floundering himself. Not that that is necessarily a bad thing. Is he a good T in general and your connection is good? How long have you been seeing him?

Calista- Do you really see 3 Ts? And the "MY CHAIR" T would have freaked me out, too. I think I would have spent the entire session talking chairs and boundaries instead of the issues I am there for....unless that is part of the issues I am there for...are you still seeing the My Chair T?