Michelle,
It is so good to hear that you had such a wonderful evening together with J. He sounds like a great support for you as well as your partner. I hope someday I will be able to find a partner who is as accepting of me and all my parts as you are with your partner. Thank you for posting here and being such a great support. Oh and thank you so much for being a great friend to my little Krista. She absolutely adores you.
Cris