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Old May 07, 2010, 01:31 AM
Claire89-2 Claire89-2 is offline
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I'm so sorry to hear that your daughter is being bullied at 4 or any age. There has been so much in the news recently about bullies and there is much more awareness and intolerance for it occurring. Be persistent. The bully doesn't have the right to inflict harm on another person. If she acts out and hurts others, she needs to be stopped. It's as simple as that. Don't worry about how many times you have to go to the school and talk with the principal. What about removing your daughter from that school? It sounds like she is suffering during the most important development (0-5) years of her life. It would not be in her best interest to be surrounded by that much trauma. I hope the issue can be resolved soon for your daughter's sake.

- Claire




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Originally Posted by uglykidjoe View Post
I wrote something last week about my 4-year-old daughter's temper tantrums. Anyway, I also forgot to mention that she has been a victim of being bullied by some girl in her class. It all started back in December around the holidays. She kept saying this girl was pinching her, kicking her, etc. It was to the point where she was afraid to go to school At first I thought it would die down since the teachers kept writing this girl up and sending her to the office. Well low and behold. In January, this little brat bit my daughter on the face and she had to go to the nurse. Thank God she didn't have broken skin.

Anyway, I went ballistic at that school and they had to calm me down. Finally my mom and I had a meeting with the principal, the other girl's mom and the teacher. It stopped for a while, but it's starting back up again because my daugther told me recently that the girl pinched her and called her a *****. Also my daughter has been having accidents at school due to this. Every week, I have to bring in a change of clothes for her. I think this bully is scaring her so much that she's afraid to go to the bathroom so she does it on herself.

Could this also be why she's acting out as well? I need some answers right away. There has been too many victims being bullied at school. Does any other parent on here have a child that has been bullied?