I recently posted a profile on a dating site. I chose to mention up front that I had a disability. I also said that because of this I was concerned about being vunerable and would want to run a background check before I met anyone face to face. Every match that I has said this to has gotten upset.I tried to explain that this is not a personal thing but it didn't seem to help. The guys that I have contacted all think I'm paranoid. So does a male friend I've known for sometime. I wanted to get an impartial opinion