I have lonliness issues, but I was always under the assumption that it was a "mixed" diagnosis with BPD. Being the whole, false beliefs of isolation.

What saves me is a cell phone, and good friends. I dont go to wal-mart unless I have one or the other. Whether its my wife, or a friend on the way to fishing. If I cant get either, I have to stay on a cell phone with my wife. I dont like being away from someone. 3am, if I am coming back from fishing, I call my wife and talk to her the whole way because I dont want to drive home alone. I have family a little over an hour away, but I dont go if my wife wont go.

It's a struggle.... I dont know how much I can help, but you arent alone.