I've posted here once before ... Wife is battling depression , has been away from the house now almost 2 months in an apartment set up by her counselor while she does this "program" . The intent is that she get better and can deal with life and it's responsiblities again . Sure feels like a bunch of "crap" to me right now . She isn't getting any better and I havn't even been able to get involved in the counseling session as I am supposed to be able to . The wife says the counselor doesn't feel the wife is ready for it . To my wife's defense she was very sick for almost 3 weeks and unable to proceed very much with the counseling .

So ... here I sit in our home trying to hold everything togther financially as well as emotionally feeling awful . Our home was set up as many are with two incomes needed to keep things afloat . She hsnt helped at all for a shade over 3 months , always probs with the checks getting to her etc etc ... she has been working sporadically because of her physical health but regardless ...nothing . I had talked to her about it maybe 7 weeks back and she assured me she would help but she hsn't and it feels like pulling teeth to try and work through that . She even had the nerve to tell me she felt I was being to demanding with her on the phone ... she hasnt taken care of anything and I had to keep bringing up stuff that needed to be done on her end .

The mortgage is now 2 months late and I am talking to the mortgage company to see what my options are ... when I asked the wife about us possibly getting a reduced mortgage payment but that I needed to know if "she was with me" on this and that it was a good opportunity for us and wanted her input ...she tells me ...well I am just working on me right now , to get better .

Guess I had better just figure on her not being around or helping in any way as that is the way it has been for awhile , probably the best way to proceed in this ... it just really sucks to think and feel that way but I suppose she has been showing me the "reality" of what is going on just by her non support and by just dropping her hands and saying ...here you take all the load of responsibilties and by the way don't be too demanding .

What a crock of ****

Left in Limbo